Sometimes we get in over our heads, sometimes we fall in love. Sometimes one persons love is not the same. Usually. and so as it goes there is hurt. not because one person wants to hurt the other. but because some people have loved many times and others a few. and the few ideoloical lovers and the manyy cynical ones love in spite of, because of , insteed of.... Does it cheapen love to have so many, or does it give perspective , overstanding, paitciants................................no probably it leaves you cold and alone in your bedroom.